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Posted by Joy Chakraborty | at 6:39 AM
Category : Henry Louis Vivian Derozio, Sonnet to the pupils of Hindu College
When a child comes into this world, he knows nothing about the strange world he has come. He is then taught and trained all that are needed to survive in this world. He does not know the feeling of hunger. He does not even know how to express when he needs to go for nature’s call. Everything he has to learn. He is then trained how to speak, how to express his feeling, emotions even behavior he should do with anybody. Then he has to go through another step to acquire knowledge. That is to earn educational qualification. It is a lengthy process which claims at least a decade. After completion of this educational phase a child is becomes a Man, i.e. he is grown up.
He has acted under for a longtime before he has been entitled as a
Posted by Joy Chakraborty | at 11:41 PM
Category : scepticism, superstitions
Selfishness is a single word with wide and complex explanation. The word defines the quality of thinking only of your own advantage, caring only about what you want or need without any thought for the needs or wishes of other people. The means the person who is selfish is devoted to or caring only for himself, concerned primarily with his own interests, benefits, welfare, etc., regardless of others. No doubt it is a word that is hated and disliked ostensively by all for its mean and narrow outlook.
Now, the questions comes what kind of act or action is considered as selfish act and what not. The opposite meanings of the word Selfishness are kindhearted, altruistic, generous etc.
As a broad angle, we hate selfish people, and justify ourselves as kindhearted and generous, but we all are selfish. We maintain a parallel characteristic of ours showing sympathy to others distress and thinking of our own interest. Our hearts cry whenever we find an old aged man begging or any handicapped person staggers for alms. We cannot but put our hands into the pocket for the money purse.
Evidently we all dislike selfish people and try to avoid such people. Our minds, hearts don’t support us to be mean minded and so we act generously. We listen to our hearts and do accordingly. We work generously because of our own interest and to keep our minds at peace. To give a small amount of happiness to our generous minds, we pay the beggar, help the handicapped. To give a little bit joy to our hearts we spend huge amount at restaurant, buy costly dresses. We buy luxury furniture, valuable jewelleries, go for world travel, stay at exotic hotels, and spend money at Casinos. Everything we do is ONLY for our own interest. Even if we say we help the beggar as a generous kindhearted person, the question arises, what if we would not have helped the beggar? The obvious answer would be that as we are generous, kindhearted, we cannot tolerate seeing the destitute of the beggar. Our hearts compel us to help the beggar. If we would not do that, our hearts would be full with sorrow or grief. To bring happiness to our heart, we help the beggar, to keep our mind fresh and active we pay alms to the beggar. Whatever we do, we do for our own shake, our own interest. If we listen music or watch television, that too is for our own interest. We are selfish and all kinds of acts we do throughout the day are all selfish acts. We do what our hearts want. Sometimes we do some tasks being under pressure where our minds don’t support us. Still we do such work, because we know the consequences of not being obedient. To avoid such untoward situation, to give a relief to our heart we do those work. We don’t want to give any pressure or pain to our hearts and so do such heartless work. We can do anything; go any stage of extremism just to please our hearts, our minds and above all for our own happiness. Does not prove that we are selfish?
Hospitality is that great virtue what a guest expects from its host
Posted by Joy Chakraborty | at 10:32 PM
Category : perceptions and phenomenon
Look, See, Peek, Gaze, Glance, Peer, Stare, Peep, Scan, Watch, Observe. All these are called Perception. There are different ways how one percepts a thing. If the ways are different, the phenomenon should be different respectively. The knowledge one earns through his own consciousness is his own knowledge. In his childhood he had been taught the way to percept the world he lives in. And the way he percepts the world is to be the best one as per his knowledge. The poor fellow he would be if he considers his conception or idea to be the best without comparing with anything. Our knowledge must be different as outlook varies. So there is no possibilities of existing extreme knowledge. Since the existence of Pure and perfect knowledge depend on the pure and perfect medium through which the knowledge is earned. Since all the people observe the world from their won angles and outlooks, the knowledge varies and therefore the concept of existing ONE and EXTREME truth is questionable. Knowledge is earned through outlook, characteristics, merits we inherit from our ancestors. The phenomenon that comes through these inherited characteristics turns to knowledge .These inherited characteristics act as media of our knowledge. And if the elements provided by the media are wrong then the knowledge must be wrong. Phenomenon, what the word defines is the subject that reaches through our inherited characteristics, i.e. what we see is phenomenon, what we observe is phenomenon, what we watch is phenomenon. The subject of perception is phenomenon.
Posted by Joy Chakraborty | at 4:03 AM
Category : Human Relation, humen relaion, relationships
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